That's One Thing You'll Never See Me Do! - Lost Awareness, Part 2
Hoo-boy. Not me. Not that. Not ever.
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In a previous article, we introduced one main reason people block out awareness in a particular area of their life. You're just not quite sure you wanna dredge up that painful stuff all over again.
Today, we'll consider the next. What do you suppose it looks like when you're simply unwilling to consider a change?
You say you want awareness. You say you want to be empowered. You say you want to understand why your life is in a rut, or why you keep on making the same old choices that still don't work.
Yet in the next breath, you are absolutely committed to never changing your behavior. Never ever. For sure. Subject is closed.
Can you see the conflict?
You're placing conditions on your awareness. Let's see how this might play out.
Enough examples, huh?
Awareness and change are two separate steps
Here's the conflict. When you say you're looking for awareness, then place rigid conditions on the answer you're willing to receive, you've blocked the awareness. It's no mystery. You're in charge, just like you want to be. And your own conditions have created the block.
But it's completely unnecessary! Awareness does not obligate you to any action at all! Acknowledging the truth is its own step.
Awareness is not the same as change. Knowing and doing are two separate steps.
Insight: It's completely viable to receive awareness
Open yourself to the truth
When in doubt, here's the trick. Until you've become crystal clear on what the truth of your situation is, suspend your "rules" about what you are or are not willing to do in order to change it.
Gaining the awareness, even if you choose to do nothing about it, will at the very least put you in a position of power ... a position of choice (and in my book, choice is power).
Remove "I just don't get it" and you open yourself to the truth. You relinquish your right to play the victim. And that's a position of power.
Maybe you'll choose the change, in your time, when you're ready. Maybe you won't. Your choice. You're in the driver's seat. And you're definitely more empowered than you would have been sitting in "I don't know."
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